.Yet what Astrid doesn't notice yet is actually a reality that both Ortega and O'Hara-- who possesses pair of boys-- can easily verify: The fact that your partnership along with your parents improvements and develops as you both get older, as well as ideally for the better. "Your globe centers around [your kids] when they are actually children [and also] it's a great deal job but charming," O'Hara claims. "Later on, you actually miss out on that, given that then you can not obtain them to do anything you prefer all of them to perform, due to the fact that they start creating their personal minds, their very own point of views." And inevitably, you find yourself in the place O'Hara, whose kids are in their 20s and also 30s, locates herself right now, able to pick up from her children. "They're just such great young people," she states. "I am actually not their pal, yet I enjoy possessing talks with all of them and also getting to know how they deal with life.".